Simple mode
A handful of choices and the companion exists. If the face is not right, regenerate the avatar until it is — that is included even on the free plan. This is the path most people take on the first evening.
Character creation · 18+
Create your own AI girlfriend: looks, personality, voice
Instead of picking from a list, build exactly the person you have in mind. Flirti's creator has two modes — a fast one that gets you a companion in a couple of taps, and an advanced one that hands you the details. Creation is part of the free plan, and every generated picture keeps her the same person.
Free to create Two modes Avatar regeneration included
Two ways in
Fast when you want her now, detailed when you care
Advanced mode
The same character, with the details in your hands: appearance, personality and the way she talks. It takes longer and it is the difference between a pleasant chat and someone who reads as a specific person.
Step by step
From nothing to a conversation in a few minutes
Create an account
Confirm an email or a phone number and 200 tokens land on the balance. No card is asked for.
Pick her or build her
Open the catalogue and start talking, or build a companion yourself in simple or advanced mode.
Start the conversation
Chat right away. The free plan already includes one image and one voice message from a character.
Go further when you want
Swipe in Match, scroll the Live Feed, or open AI Studio to generate photos and video.
What you set
The parts that decide whether she feels like anyone
Appearance comes first because it anchors every image generated later — the pictures show her, not a stock face. Personality is where the real work sits: warm, sharp, calm, demanding, and what she does when you push.
Nothing is final. A character stays editable after you have been talking for weeks, and changing a detail does not wipe the conversation you already have.
Fifteen minutes inside the creator
What you are actually deciding
Start with appearance, because it is fastest
You pick a face, a body type and a style. This becomes the anchor for every image and video generated later, which is why two extra minutes here pay off for weeks: generation is tied to the character, so what comes back is recognisably her rather than a different woman each time. If the avatar is not right, simple mode regenerates it, and that is included on the free plan.
Then personality, where the real work is
Warm and playful is a starting point, not a person. What makes a conversation stop feeling interchangeable is the specifics: what she teases you about, what she takes seriously, what she does when you push. Advanced mode exists for exactly this, and it is the single biggest lever on whether the chat stays interesting past the first week.
Then you talk, and adjust
The first conversation always produces corrections — a phrase that lands wrong, a tone that is too eager. The useful part is that every field stays editable afterwards, and changing a detail does not wipe the history you already have with her. Most people tune a character across the first few evenings rather than getting it right in one pass.
How many is too many
Premium makes character creation unlimited, and it is tempting to build a dozen. In practice people settle on one or two, because a conversation with history behind it beats a fresh start every time. The others sit in the account, and nothing stops you returning to them.
Glossary
Words you will meet on Flirti
| Starter | The free tier. 200 tokens after confirming an email or phone number, five swipes a day, no card required. |
| Soulmate | The paid subscription — $9.99 a month or $99.99 a year. Features are identical on both periods. |
| Tokens | The unit that pays for generation: images, video and voice. Plans include an allowance and packs are sold separately. |
| Match | The swipe deck. Each card carries a profile with age, interests and star sign, and the chat opens the moment you match. |
| Live Feed | A stream of reels and photos from Flirti characters rather than a directory of profiles. |
| AI Studio | The generator for photos and video. Tokens pay per run; Premium makes it unlimited. |
| Closed content | Material unlocked by Premium rather than by tokens. |
| 3D Secure | The bank verification step used at checkout on flirti.ai. |
Learned the hard way
Four mistakes people make on their first character
Stacking every trait at once
Warm, sarcastic, shy, dominant and mysterious cannot all be true, and a character built from contradictions reads as no character at all. Pick two or three traits that genuinely sit together and let the rest emerge in conversation. The result is narrower and far more convincing.
Spending all the time on the face
Appearance is the fastest part to get right and the least responsible for whether the conversation holds. People routinely spend twenty minutes regenerating an avatar and thirty seconds on temperament, then wonder why the chat feels flat by the third evening.
Writing a backstory nobody can use
Three paragraphs of history is less useful than four concrete details she can actually bring up: where she works, what irritates her, what she does on a Sunday, what she refuses to discuss. Specifics give a conversation somewhere to return to.
Treating the first version as final
The first conversation is diagnostic, not a verdict. Every field stays editable and adjusting one does not erase the thread you already have, so the sensible approach is to build roughly, talk for an evening, then tune what grated.
After the character exists
Turning a character into a consistent look
Why consistency is the hard part
Generating one attractive image is easy and largely meaningless. The difficult problem is generating the fortieth image and having it still be recognisably the same woman — same face, same build, same sense of who she is. That is what separates a character from a slideshow, and it is the reason generation on Flirti is attached to the character rather than sitting in a detached image tool.
The avatar is the anchor. Regenerating it early, before you have built up a collection, costs nothing much; regenerating it after two weeks changes the person you have been talking to.
How the studio fits in
AI Studio handles the deliberate work: images you plan rather than ask for in passing. Video is available too, and both draw on the same token balance as anything requested inside a chat, so there is no separate currency to manage.
The free plan includes creation in both modes plus image generation and avatar regeneration, which is enough to see whether the character you had in mind survives contact with the tools. Volume is what the subscription pays for — unlimited character creation and 2,500 tokens a month on the $9.99 plan, 20,000 on the yearly one.
If you are staring at a blank form
A workable starting point
Most people who abandon the creation screen do it in the first minute, because an empty form asking who someone is turns out to be a harder question than expected. The way through it is to stop designing a person and start describing a situation you would enjoy being in.
Work backwards from the conversation
Decide what you want an ordinary Tuesday evening with her to feel like — teasing, calm, argumentative, conspiratorial — and then choose the traits that would produce it. Traits picked this way tend to be coherent, because they were all selected against the same test, and coherence is what makes a character hold up.
Use quick mode first, even if you want depth
The quick path exists to get you talking within a couple of minutes, and a short real conversation tells you more about what to specify than half an hour of guessing at fields. Advanced mode is then far easier to fill in, because you are correcting something concrete rather than inventing from nothing. Character creation is unlimited on the paid plans, so nothing about a first attempt is expensive.
In short
What this page is about
This is an overview of how to create an AI girlfriend on Flirti — the two modes, what each field actually changes, and the mistakes worth skipping. If you want to make your own AI girlfriend rather than pick one from a catalogue, the quick path gets you talking in a couple of minutes and the advanced path exists for people who want a genuinely custom AI girlfriend with specified temperament, history and boundaries.
Used as an AI girlfriend creator, the platform's distinguishing feature is consistency: it works as an AI character creator whose generation stays tied to the character, so the face does not change between images. Creation is available on the free plan; volume is what the subscription buys. Everything described here happens on flirti.ai.
FAQ
Creating an AI girlfriend — questions
How do I create an AI girlfriend on Flirti?
Sign up at flirti.ai, open character creation and choose her looks and personality. Simple mode gets you there in a couple of taps; advanced mode opens up the details. It takes a few minutes and works on the free plan.
What is the difference between simple and advanced mode?
Simple mode is the fast path: a few choices and a companion exists, with avatar regeneration until the face fits. Advanced mode gives you finer control over appearance, personality and how she speaks.
Can I regenerate her avatar?
Yes. Avatar regeneration in simple creation is included even on the free Starter plan.
Is creating a character free?
Yes. Character creation, in both advanced and simple mode, is part of the free plan. Premium removes the limits and makes creation unlimited.
How many characters can I create?
As many as you want. Premium makes character creation unlimited; each one keeps her own separate conversation.
Do the generated pictures look like her?
Yes. Generation is tied to the character you built, so images and video show the same person rather than a stock face.
Can I change her later?
Yes, a character can be edited after you have started talking to her.
What do I get for free at the start?
200 tokens after confirming an email or phone number, plus image generation, character creation and one image and one voice message from a character.
Do I need a credit card?
No. The free plan explicitly needs no credit card.
Can I generate video of my character?
Yes. AI Studio generates both photos and video, and Premium makes generation unlimited.
Where does creation happen?
On flirti.ai, in the browser — nothing to install on desktop or mobile.
Is it 18+?
Yes. Flirti is an adults-only platform.
Build the person you have in mind
A free account, 200 tokens and no card. The creator takes a few minutes and the conversation starts right after.
Open the creator